Thanks alot for your words James it means a lot to me.Honestly WuYi was one of, if not the, greatest staff member I've worked with on the server (from almost 9 months now), and his genuine passion and dedication to the server is not one many could truthfully say they uphold.
I've kept in touch with WuYi since his demotion and blacklist and still regularly speak to him, and apart from that one day never once has he ****ged off the server or the community. He has every reason to hate it having been blacklisted with little chance of returning, but he still has a place in his heart for the server. He really truly cares with great passion for the community and the server as a whole.
On the team WuYi worked tirelessly to aim for the best he could to benefit the server as much as possible. He was one of the few people I could always rely on to never just accept a bad decision and to always fight with me to get all that's best for the server. Never afraid to speak up but did so in a constructive manner. On the event team he helped tons with events and constantly took initiative to host mini events to help add to many players' enjoyment of the server, which shows how much he cares and is community orientated. Not to mention his contributions day in and day out on the staff team, putting in insane hours of effort to just be around to help players and keep chat clean, and from the reviewer team spending endless hours in his efforts to keep the server clean of hackers.
He made a couple of massive mistakes which he deeply regrets. Obviously no one can argue on his demotion, but for someone who has given so much and cares so much for this community I think a blacklist is too harsh. He abused a bit yes, but if he actually wanted to hurt the server in any way he could've done a lot more, but didn't as that has never and will never be an intention of his.
It was such a pleasure being able to train WuYi and help and watch him grow on the staff team throughout his time here. He's an amazing guy, I really hope you get unbanned @WuYi ily <3
Well if children are playing that doesn't set an example when a staff member gets demoted then straight after goes on a rampage calling everybody racial slurs and "being finally released".@Breweyy I have a few things to say, number one is the fact that flying as a mod isnt a rare mistake to happen, you have to seperately toggle off and on the fly each time you do anything so i can see how it may have been a mistake, however about the buckets there is absolutely nothing to excuse that and thats the reason he is where he is now..
Finally, you must have no soul and take this block game so seriously as if your life depends on it, you see someones story and you call it "A poor explanation on how he lived in a home til the age of 18". Honestly i see why you where upset but to call it that is purely disgusting. Sometimes you have to remember this is a game for children not your life, although i can see how you might mix them up considering you spend so much time on it ^.^
@Breweyy Personally, I don't know WuYi at all. Soon after I did start playing on Desteria, he was banned, and I didn't necessarily understand why or what he did as a new player. However, outside of his actions, I feel like keeping him blacklisted doesn't necessarily serve him any justice, especially after the many months he has served as staff (according to other peoples' posts and what not on this thread). Let's take for example, something that occurs often in real life. Crimes occur often and people get sent to jail accordingly, or fined - in which they can be taken off from their sentence earlier with parole and such. I feel like a similar act should be put upon @WuYi, which means he should be unblacklisted to be tested his actions for a numerous amount of months (for this example, I'll say 6). This doesn't mean AT ALL that WuYi will get his staff rank back, and over the course of those 6 months, he will be treated like any other player and observed to make sure his attitude and behavior isn't out of line like it was just before he got blacklisted. If he does happen to slip up, he'll be blacklisted again, or something of that sort. After a clean record, he can of course apply for staff again (where staff keeps in mind of his blacklist and behavior from this blacklist, and of course affect his application) where he can possibly be accepted, but start over as a recruit and have to rebuild from there.Well if children are playing that doesn't set an example when a staff member gets demoted then straight after goes on a rampage calling everybody racial slurs and "being finally released".
I see where your coming from, however it wasn't the individual actions that lead to the demotion/blacklist. It was the fact he was trusted by the server and then betrayed it. Yes, I agree the actions were extremely minor and in the end did, absolute to no harm. However he broke the trust that all staff members must have. (lmao, I want him back as-well, just saying measuring abuse on a scale isn't the best way to decide, aka. who abused harder?)Imo he should be unblacklisted. It's one of the lesser staff abuse stories. It's not like his actions affected the whole network and obviously he wont be doing it again.
In cases of crime, prosecutors offer the accused person a lighter punishment if they admit they’re guilty. If they do not admit guilt, they go on trial, where their punishment is much more severe if they’re found to be guilty.
Why didn’t you make this post, and why now?Thanks for all your kind words and help putting clearance on stuff, I really appreciate it.
As for my irl life:
I'm an extremely lucky man, I found an apartment just in time and am now living happily near my school and friends.
Now I can understand why you put lava in a dispenser and all, but after it happened to us in a raid I understand why it’s so bad >:C
I agree with CashMan although, I'm not annoyed at all at WuYi considering we still got into Anglers / Chrono and succeed with the raid after all this was dealt with.Why didn’t you make this post, and why now?
I did infact make the actual contend of the post, weren't able to post it as I was blacklisted from forums tooWhy didn’t you make this post, and why now?
You should also give the chance for Bikkie, Deters and TooDumbToHack to appeal/ apologise, as im sure they have regrets. See if the community will give them an another chance and it would also be nice for some more competition to come back.As a handful of you are aware, a few weeks/months back there was a Moderator on the Staff Team that went by the name 'WuYi'. After getting into some trouble he ended up getting himself removed from the team and blacklisted from the server. I've been speaking with him ever since and he's made it clear that he regrets his actions. He wants you all to understand where he was coming from and why he did what he did. I agreed to let him write up something that I'd post on his behalf. The following quotation is that post, unaltered, in his words. Hopefully it sheds some light on what happened and gives some closure to the situation for everyone involved. Without further ado:
"Hello Desterians, Im WuYi and this is my official apology and explanation regarding my abusive acts around a month ago.
Where do i start… Desteria has been like a home for me throughout the last 4 years.
I have met a bunch of wonderful people and i really appreciate the time i've gotten to spend on here.
So what actually happened?
This is a question quite a few people probably are asking themselves... I did in fact abuse, its not something im proud off, i don't find it funny and i regret it from the bottom of my heart. I shouldn't have done it, and nothing i'm going to say is going to justify the betrayal trust i may have earned throughout my time on the staff team.
At the time of me starting to be abusive i had a lot of irl struggles. I know i shouldn't have taken it out on Desty and i deeply regret my actions.
A little bit of backstory on me is that i used to live in a child's care home, this was overall an okay experience, Yet once you turn 18 you often end up getting kicked out… This is basically what happened to me. One month in advance i was told that i had to move.. Which put a huge stress on me as i had no job nor place to live and no one were able to tell me where i would end… I’m as said really sorry that my stress and frustrations turned into my acts and i know it doesn't justify them, yet for some the reasoning behind them may be important which is why I felt a need to add this.
Logic has been kind enough to let me write this post which i really appreciated.
I'm really sorry for how toxic i may have been after my demotion, i hope Im still able to be forgiven."
He's been trying ever since he's got blacklisted. I've talked to him regularly about it. Maybe for that day that he was demoted he gave a bit of backfire, but as soon as he'd given himself a chance to think it through he has honestly been better than anyone demoted I've seen (let alone blacklisted).I agree with CashMan although, I'm not annoyed at all at WuYi considering we still got into Anglers / Chrono and succeed with the raid after all this was dealt with.
Although with the lateness of the aplogy and how WuYi acted after being "relieved" is just terrible. Should be at least be accounted for.
https://metro.co.uk/2015/01/04/growing-my-own-penis-heres-how-im-getting-the-male-body-ive-always-wanted-4986770/He's been a cooperative staff for months and suddently an outbreak which lasted around 2 days (months into being a staff) is the reasoning for abusing..... if this is how he felt and acted wouldn't you think he'd do all this crap before hand rather than a few weeks into being a moderator
I don't really want to ask how and why you were on this site to begin with although.....
At the time I got blacklisted, I was in the middle of it all, and it kinda made me blind for how I may have appeared for others, this shouldn't have happened, yet I can't do much other than apologise for my actions.He's been trying ever since he's got blacklisted. I've talked to him regularly about it. Maybe for that day that he was demoted he gave a bit of backfire, but as soon as he'd given himself a chance to think it through he has honestly been better than anyone demoted I've seen (let alone blacklisted).