To everyone afflicted by my past staffing

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  1. Carbon

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    Alright. Thank you for your oppinion. I agree, yes, I would like staff.
    I don't just want to fix my relationship with the staff team. I want to be a great staff member, and improve myself.
    I do think warnings are an amazing tool. However people take advantage of them. How come you warned him and not me?
    --- Double Post Merged, Feb 11, 2019, Original Post Date: Feb 11, 2019 ---
    I had to resign from the staff team on terms I could not control. Some stuff happened in my life.
     
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    This is the first time commenting on your situation, but yes thank you for overreacting and getting super defensive and ignoring all my points. You would be a great staff!
     
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    I'm sorry, your profile picture looks extremely similar to that of people who are harrassing me.
    Your points are that: 1. I'm hated by the community.
    2.im gonna get harrassed.
    3. I'm not showing you respect.
    Imo I have responded to your points sufficently. No need for the snide and sarcastic remarks.
     
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    Right, maybe you should read my comments properly if that's all you got from it. I'm gonna stop commenting now. Clearly you are very stubborn and defensive. You take everything as harassment, instead of something to consider and maybe improve on. Most things in this thread have already been contradicted by yourself. I'd wish you luck in your power struggle, but i'd rather not feed your ego.
     
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    Alright.
     
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    You mention a few things in these sections that I'll point out and why I see this as a complete facade.

    "Took them out of context and was very stubborn that I was always right"
    "I've changed"
    "anyone can say that, and it's hard to believe"
    "..and how I've changed and grown as a person."
    "..I know I was wrong, but I kept pushing."
    "..all I wanted was to be right."
    "And now I see that being right is not what really matters, it is making the right choices."
    "I could never listen to another person's ways."
    "I would always fall back into my old routine."
    "I would never listen to the viewpoints of players.."
    "...the other person's viewpoint matters the most."

    These are all things that you said during the original statement...I'm not even going to look at all your responses because the latest one sums it up pretty well.



    "Took them out of context and was very stubborn that I was always right"
    "..I know I was wrong, but I kept pushing."
    "..all I wanted was to be right."
    "I could never listen to another person's ways."
    "I would always fall back into my old routine."
    "I would never listen to the viewpoints of players.."

    Look at all the things you've been able to recognize it, but clearly not enough time to actually apply them as we'll see even more below.



    Summing up people's points without actually acknowledging them word-for-word is never a good idea because you generally end up dropping some fairly important phrasing that adds a lot of validity to their statements. For example, you aren't listing WHY the community doesn't really like you - which is off to begin with because nobody really hates you - they just don't like how you act. You're going to get harassed because you failed to understand the fundamental reason why people would want to harass you. Wait, I take that back - you understand it, you just don't apply it.



    "I've changed"
    "..and how I've changed and grown as a person."
    "And now I see that being right is not what really matters, it is making the right choices."
    "...the other person's viewpoint matters the most."
    "I would never listen to the viewpoints of players.."

    I'll leave it at that.
     
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    Thank you
     
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    I was never affected by your staffing but you helped me develop my server and that’s how I think of you :)
     
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    Omega put him in a coffin. ****ing rip boys
     
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    Well this isn’t how you show it. You seem like how I used to be. @Omega Lol.
     
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    @Carbon as i've said before I haven't had any encounters with you before but your career was just ended in the worst way possible
    deleting your staff app is probably the best thing you can do right now

    and tbh that was ****ing hilarious
     
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    roadwork
    mY “staff career”
     
  14. Carbon

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    I'm not defending myself. I'm owning up to all of my issues. Thank you for posting that screenshot again.
    --- Double Post Merged, Feb 12, 2019, Original Post Date: Feb 12, 2019 ---
    I didn't have a choice when I had to resign. I had somthing really big come up.
    --- Double Post Merged, Feb 12, 2019 ---
    Well, you all got your wish. Hopefully this will be a first step in reducing the community hate towards me.
     
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    Looks to me that you made this post simply to get empathy from the player base to catapult yourself back into staff but obviously that backfired. You don't understand that this community has had Ambushment as it's owner, the person who made posts similar to these 24/7 so as far as I'm aware they don't buy into this one bit. If you were serious in any sort of way about this post you would have

    1. Identified your flaws (As you have done in this thread)
    2. have worked on bettering yourself and being an all together more consistent person
    3. Then would have made a forums post constructed differently to apologies (but no one does this unless its serious lol)
    Also your screenshots seem to have been placed there just to exaggerate everything lol. Anyway, it's weird you want to jump into staff to 'redeem' yourself as that just seems childish and immature. You don't need staff to be a better person, if anything you can do that by yourself and work on progressing yourself. Stop moping around and just do it lol.
     
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    I've deleted my staff app. But thank you for taking the time to write that out. I found out the hard way that I can't just"do it" when everyone keeps bringing up past events. I can never deal with the future if I'm always worrying about the past.
     
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    If you're just going to keep on bringing up excuses you never will lol, this community isn't forgiving but they will give a chance to those who deserve it and actually work for it.
     
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    Alright.
    The community won't even remember who I am tomorrow.

    In any sense, I'm requesting this thread get locked. @Omega @Corbin @Bonfiyah
     
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